Watching a parent become weaker, sicker or feebler is stressful. And when that parent becomes hostile or resistant to help, it can get very stressful for you. Knowing how to manage such situations is critical in developing a long term care plan for your parent.
Aging could be a difficult process
Age and illness can intensify certain longstanding negative personality traits in an older parent – an irritable person may get more cantankerous, an impatient person more demanding.These are times when caring for a difficult elder may feel really challenging.
Aging parents are often embarrassed, frustrated and depressed when they are forced, by their physical limitations, to rely on other family members for care. This sense of dependence leads to a feeling of despair and resentment. This, in turn, could eventually result in negative and difficult behavior.
The aging process itself sometimes brings about anger, as seniors vent frustration about getting old, having chronic pain, losing friends, having memory issues and being incontinent. Anger may lead to difficult behavior.
Caring for the elderly can be a huge challenge, particularly as they require multiple service providers like doctors, nursing agencies, physiotherapists, medical suppliers, etc. However, this challenge could only get worse if your elderly parent is not receptive to your help or is “ungrateful”. How can you cope in such a situation? These tips will help.
Tips to manage a difficult care situation
- Know your limitations and line up support. Trying to care for aging parents yourself is no easy task. It is important to have specialist help to ensure you won’t be standing on the front line all by yourself. It may also be prudent to meet with siblings, other relatives, or other friends who will be giving care. This way you can divide the labor early on, if necessary and possible.
- Take time to prepare yourself. In a difficult situation, you are bound to make decisions quickly without thinking them through. If you have a difficult relationship with your parent or someone else you’re caring for, it is essential to spend some quiet time before you decide if you need extra help or if you want to get specialist care.
- Choose your expert help carefully. If you do not have family support, or you live far from the person you are caring for, or if your relationship is difficult to start with, consider hiring a professional home care expert. Take the time to find someone that you and the person you are caring for both trust. The right care giver will help you communicate more effectively and help ease the situation.
Make the best of Professional Home care facilities in India
For families managing care remotely, possibly from another city or country, Professional Home Care like TriBeCa Care’s (www.tribecacare.com) offers comprehensive elder care for a range of medical and non-medical problems. With specialist elderly care service and packages designed to assist various needs of your loved one, TriBeCa Care provides possible solutions to difficult situations. TriBeCa Care also arranges for doctors, nurses, bedside attendants, physiotherapists, Dementia counsellors, medical supplies and medicines – making it easier for families to manage end-to-end care at home.
With TriBeCa Care you get a lot more than just medicines and ambulances for the elderly. TriBeCa Care provides your aging parents dignity, compassion, companionship and peace of mind.
Whether you are looking for an assisted living facility, or trained physiotherapists at home, or regular doctor home visits or nursing care after a surgery –take your time to decide on the right home healthcare service solution. It is the most important decision in delivering personalized home care to your loved ones.
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